happens to send you to the depths of despair. It lets the air out of your balloon. Actually, there are several ways that you can wind up feeling defeated. Let’s focus on the area of criticism. Often times a critical comment plummets you to the bottom of the pit.
Harry A. Ironside was preacher and theologian of yesteryear. In talking about criticism, he said this, “If what they are saying about you is true, mend your ways. If it isn’t true, forget it, and go on and serve the Lord.” That is some sound advice. Next time you are criticized, stop and take a minute to evaluate what was said about you. Then you should put into practice what Ironside told you. This will keep your emotions in a comfortable zone.
As far as the way you are to talk to others, the Scriptures give you specific commands. These commands will keep you from being the one who is being critical. It says, “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only as a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear” (Ephesians 4:29). In other words, be an encourager. The words you speak are to be words to build other people up, not tear them down.
You do not like other people to criticize you, so you should not criticize others. Criticism will definitely let the air out of your balloon. Be known as a person that is positive and that says good things to others and about other people. The world can use a lot more people who are encouraging. Hopefully, the people you like to associate with are those who have positive attitudes.
Instead of deflating someone’s balloon, fill it up with encouragement. It will make them feel better, and you will feel better, too.
